The Pro's And Cons Of Being In Love Online

Due to unsociable working hours or simply the death of the
community, more and more people these days are finding
love online. Online dating is the fastest growing way
to meet your love, though it has its pitfall. Whilst online
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dating agencies may offer a quick way to meet these love
birds, instant messaging using programs such as ICQ,
MSN, or Odigo offer a lightning speed way of getting very
intimate, because you can be just who you want to be
when you are chatting online, and none will notice your
blush if you say something wrong and most importantly,
it allow you to take risk that you would never attempt in
the real world.

The most powerful aspect of this is that we paint our own
picture in our minds of what the other person is without all
those non-verbal clues such as facial expressions and
mannerisms that subconsciously in the real world reveals
us valuable informations about the person and we tend to
fall in their love. Why do we end up falling in love for people
we have not met yet? The answer is simple, we want to be
in love, and want to tell ourselves that the searching for our
soul mate is over and with that we picture our lives in a
happy sea of couple Dom, sharing our love lives together
but it is this haste that ends our single lives that can lead
to disappointment as quickly as it started.

Where many people believe to take time to develop a
relationship with online loveere are some people
believes in taking steps sooner before it is too late be
cause they believe that the impression you have built up
of this person if left for long will be so deep rooted that
will rise your expectations and you will be set for
disappointment. The other point is how are you going to
be able to keep up that persona in real life if you have
done a lot more confident chatting than you would be?
You may end up competing with yourself finding hard to
talk about things in the flesh. It will be a nerve racking
time as the two of you have to re-learn the parameters
of the relationship and digest the visual cues that our
mannerisms and facial expressions provide.

There is often a huge temptation to revert back to an 'online
relationship' after the first meeting with your love, as it
gives much more comfort and pleasure. It is suggested
that you must get to know the real person from a new offline
perspective and kill off any false impressions you may have
had about them online.